The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain. I never bled but there was a lot of pain.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. Even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, the first few times might make a girl feel sore, as the vagina has been an unused muscle or even hurt if she isn't properly lubricated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse her and her body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay – touching, kissing, etc) being fully aroused or better yet, her having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
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ReplyDeleteThis blog post JUSTIFIES the gender double standards.
ReplyDeleteIf an adult female school teacher had sex with an under-age teen boy, she's given a lighter jail sentence and the boy is seen as lucky.
If an adult male teacher did the same to an under-age virgin teen girl, he's given a heavier jail sentence and be seen as a monster while the girl is seen as a victim.
That's because when it comes to first time consensual sex, virgin girls have weaker genitals than virgin boys.
Because:
1.) Virgin girls arousal are limited within the clitoral area.
As a result, first time intercourse may hurt no matter how
gentle he may be .Most virgin girls never tried vaginal masturbation, (only clitoral)? leaving their vaginas untrained for intercourse.
2.) Virgin boys masturbate by rubbing their penises, so they know how to use it for intercourse. Most boys never say "please be gentle". Many boys do not expect pain.
During first time intercourse, a girl may suffer various vaginal weaknesses such as:
1.) Painful vaginal dilation.
2.) Painful breaking of the hymen (if present).
3.) Vaginal bleeding
4.) Pain due to insufficient vaginal lubrication.
A virgin penis does not have such weaknesses. That’s why teen boys are lucky. Virgin vaginas are SO WEAK, thus making them look like victims.
Come to think of it, a virgin teen girl being penetrated by an adult penis makes her look like she's being violated even if she wanted it. Her vagina is just TOO SMALL for him that it may require lube.
If a virgin teen boy's penis gets DEVOURED by an adult vagina, it makes him look lucky. NO LUBE REQUIRED.
Her vagina can accommodate his penis.
The mere fact that virgin girls worry that their first time might genitally hurt them while virgin boys do not, clearly
explains the reason why double standards exist.
How many women complained that their first time hurt compared to
a number of men who claimed that it also hurt them genitally?
We all know that painful first time intercourse is FAR MORE
common among women than men.
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