Friday, July 15, 2011

How to Deal With an Evil Ex Boyfriend

Is your ex-boyfriend stirring up trouble? Are you tired of him? Find out how to cope with the situations he creates.

Steps

  1. Laugh off any rumours he might try to spread. Make sure everyone knows that you think he is childish and that you don't care at all. Don't overreact, just tell people that it isn't true. Ask him why he spread the rumour. If he denies it, he's just proving that its not true! If he has naked pictures of you that he threatens to expose, remind him that blackmail is illegal and laugh it off.

  2. Stay calm if he asks your best friend out. He will be trying to make you angry. If your friend says yes, don't go crazy. If she asks you what you think, be honest. In a nice way. Say that you are not meaning to break them up or anything, but you think he is using her.
  3. Make sure it's clear that you two are over. It's possible you are being over-friendly. Stop calling him too much or texting him too much. When you actually tell him it's over, don't laugh or look scared. Keep eye contact and tell him seriously.
  4. Most important if he threatens to hurt you or anyone else call the police, even if you do not believe he could go through with his threats watch your back. Stay by a friend who will be there to support you and never stay home alone if he knows your home. No matter what emotions you hold for him keep your distance. Remember your life is more important than any boyfriend you could have.

Tips

  • Don't bother losing your temper with him. He is just trying to upset you.
  • Cut all ties with your ex. No calls, no emails and no texting. Clearly he isn't your friend and is overstepping his bounds as a human.
  • Take the high road and don't stoop to nasty games
  • Discuss it with your family and don't let it get too far if he seems dangerous. If you are physically threatened or if he starts harassing you, contact the police and look into a restraining order.
  • Is he being stupid or is he dangerous? Make sure you know and act accordingly.

Warnings

  • Do not ever kiss your ex's best friend. You will seem a lot more evil.
  • Do not ever take him back if you think you should. Even if he pleads, just don't.
  • If he does ask you out again, just remember all the things he's said about you.*

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